Saturday, 26 August 2006

Goin` Back

 

Hello Everyone,

I`m so sorry that I couldn`t read any journals yesterday.  I just didn`t have time seeing as how I didn`t get online until nearly 9pm.  My friend B, the one I told you about a couple of weeks ago came to visit.  We hadn`t seen each other for about 15 yrs so we had so much to catch up on.  She was still as gorgeous as ever.with the same infectious laugh, how have I managed all these years without her in my life.  As the afternoon wore on we talked about everything, work, or in my case lack of it, husbands, kids, cars, golf and fishing...don`t ask...lol!  Then of course we talked about us, things we did in the past, the nights out, the boyfriends, the break ups and the down right disasters in our lives that we somehow managed to survive...lol!  We were seventeen again for those few hours we spent together, we even danced around the kitchen, much to the delight of Jake, who absolutely adored her...and could also smell her adored Boxer dog Scooby!   B has now thrown down the gauntlet to make sure I overcome one of my worst, but irrational fears.  I only way I`ll see her again is to drive to her house....not a problem in itself but I am terrified of driving on motorways which I must do in order to get there.  I have decided that enough is enough, I`ve been driving safely for 20 years and I know I am perfectly capable soooo.....that is what I`ll do.  I will go out one day next week when the rush hour is over and I`ll drive a couple of junctions down the M4.  Once I`ve done it I`ll be ok, it`s doing it for the first time that is the problem so please, wish me luck and watch this space!  This morning I feel really upbeat,  I even FEEL younger and fitter, it must be the follow on from yesterday.  Whatever it is I wish I could bottle it and sell it, I would make a fortune...lol! I spent the morning doing housework and for much of the time I was singing and dancing, again much to the amusement, or bewilderment of Jake.

The weather is still very unsettled though quite mild, I`ve done loads of washing that will of coursebecome loads or ironing once it`s dry...sigh.  I must get it done because I need to pack the things that I`m taking on holiday next Saturday.  When I come back I`ll be looking very seriously for a job, this time I WILL find something, anything, or almost anything within reason will do, so again, watch this space.  Roman has been as good as gold since the `bad day` he had at the beginning of the week.  I really appreciated it last night as I was tired out from all that talking and laughing with B, who he took to immediately.  I forget to say that Danny came over last night for a shower.  His boiler has broken down  leaving him with no hot water but with luck the plumber will be there some time this morning, he`s let him down once already so fingers crossed he turns up this time.
Anyway, my friends.  I hope you all have a great Bank Holiday Weekend. Take care, Bye Bye for now. :o)

 


18 comments:

Anonymous said...

What a lovely upbeat entry!! Glad you are feeling so good this morning.. I totally understand about the driving.. I hate driving on the "expressway" here.... how nice to catch up with your friend... have a great day and enjoy the "feeling"  lol..

Lyn

Anonymous said...

That sound great catching up after all those years. I don't like driving on the Motorway either and ours are not nearly as busy as yours. I try to keep my hand in driving up and down to Perth on the M8 every now and again. Have a great bank holinday weekend Love Joan.

Anonymous said...

I know how you feel but it will be worth it to see your friend again won't it... Hope you are having a wonderful day, Sandra

Anonymous said...

Glad you had a wonderful time with your friend, sounds like such fun.  I am sure you will be fine driving and she will be glad to see you.  Glad Roman is o.k.  Have a good Bank Holiday weekend.

Anonymous said...

i am SO happy you were able to see a treasured friend and have such a happy time with her!!!! Good for you! I hate driving on highways myself so i understand your fear. I hope that you go and have a SMASHING time!
LOVE,lisa

Anonymous said...

I had a fear of motorways, then I had to drive in Holland on their motorways.....I had no choice in the matter and it was made easier by the fact the sliproad is the entire length of the motorway!! That cured me and I have been able to cope with motorways here ever since.....that was 18yrs ago!!! Mind you I do still get the nerves sometimes when it is badly congested with lorries!! I also caught up with a long lost friend through friends reunited but despite getting on well again and several emails and meetings it ended up like before with me doing all the contacting.......she still has not replied to an email or 5 I sent at Christmas!!!

Anonymous said...

Hi Sandra I always read your diary but this is my 1st comment. I too have a fear of motorways even being a passenger on the m25 can lead me to breathe into a brown paper bag!! I hope you can overcome it and see your friend if not what about a train? Louise

Anonymous said...

I am glad that you had such a good time at the reunion with your friend. I hope you are able to overcome your fear of driving on the motorway so you can enjoy many visits with her. Hugs, Helen

Anonymous said...

I am glad you had such a good time with your friend ~ catching up and sharing past memories ~ of course you can drive on the Motorways if I can I am sure you can Sandra ~ once you have done it you will wonder why you feared it ~ Hope the plumber didn't let Danny down again ~ Hope you have a good Bank Holiday weekend ~ Ally

Anonymous said...

It's so great you got to spend time with your friend. I hope you can make the drive to see her. I won't drive anywhere  out of town anymore.  :(  That is a great sig. tag with Jake's photo.  Have a great rest of your weekend.
Barb  

Anonymous said...

It's so much fun catching up, isn't it?  That's the way it was on the cruise.  Judi, Barbara, Lynnette & I  have all known each other since grade school and there we were on that boat for a week, with plenty of time to talk about the good old days.  Of course Barbara and I are on the phone several times a week with each other, since she lives near by.   I understand your concern about driving off the little side roads. And I've been driving 48 years now.  I hate the freeway here.  They go too fast, bumper, to bumper...I have done the same thing you are going to do however.  Just take little short trips at first and gradually work up to a longer trip.  When I took Meghanne for her birthday outing in July, that was about 20 miles from my house on the freeway...a little nervous at times but I made it there and back.  I still won't ever drive to Seattle however...that's a whole different ballgame. One I don't care to play.  I'll be ironing on Sunday, so I'll be thinking of you.   Linda in WA  

Anonymous said...

Oh your visit with your friend sounded wonderful ,so pleased you had a good time with her, yes you can do the motorway,we have every faith in you ,.,.,go for it Sandra ,.,.,.,.Jan xx

Anonymous said...

hi Sandra...

so pleased you had a great time with your friend, it must have been very exciting to meet up and have a good chat after all those years...take care and have a great weekend...

Astra!

Anonymous said...

Hi! Sandra..it's lovely to catch up, Someone contacted me through Friends Reunited around 3yrs ago. We hadn't seen each other since aged 19yrs,now both retired, she married and moved to Leicester, but we met up last year, We are still in regular contact by letter and email.
Aileen....X

Anonymous said...

Oh wonderful, glad you had a good time with your friend.  I know that was special.  Yes, let us know how you do at venturing out.  
Take care.
Sonya

Anonymous said...

Hi Sandra!!  I'm so glad you enjoyed your old friend. It's so fun to see friends from our past.  There's nothing like it.  They are the ones who know your history.  I know what you mean about feeling younger again. When my old friends get together we are 17 again, too!  It's so funny!  
I do hope you are able to make the drive.  It will be hard the first time, but after that you will find it easier.  It'll be good for you to see her.  
Keep us posted. ok?
Hugs to you.......Pamela

Anonymous said...

What a wonderful thing to have the reunion with your teenage friend from the past.     By waiting until rush hour is over you should be able to drive the road with comfort.      Best wishes on your upcoming trip.    mark

Anonymous said...

I know what you mean about driving. Im also so affraid of driving on our freeways. People are just not safe and Im always fearfull when I have WYatt in the car!

Kara :)