Sunday, 3 December 2006

The Way Things Were

 

Hello Everyone,

Here I am, two days in a row.  What is happening I hear you ask?  Well, as it`s getting near Christmas, my favourite time of the year I can now use all the great graphics I`ve collected from all you talented people and I can`t let them go to waste.  Anyway why not indeed if I have the time.

 

My daily routines are going to be a lot different now Danny is here, he gets up in the morning about the same time as me.  We`re very smilar in the morning in that we don`t talk for about an hour after rising so we won`t bother each other, we`ll just silently go about our business...lol!  Today I did the ironing and with it of course were Danny`s designer shirts. I can`t afford to replace them without taking out a second mortgage so caution was the order of the day, was I glad when I`d finished without burning a hole in them...lol!

I prepared a roast chicken dinner today, one of the meals that he doesn`t cook for himself and I`m happy to report that he ate every bit.  In fact,  he is also being so helpful that I`m sure it`s not lost on Jim who occasionally raises an eyebrow when he offers to load the dishwasher or vacuum the carpet...lol!  Can this be the Danny who never lifted a finger without much complaint?  Or has he been captured by aliens and returned to earth a new man? Methinks the years of living alone have taught him an independence I`d never have thought possible. Hooray for The Golden Child who has returned to the fold...lol!

          Often when I think about Christmas my mind wanders back to the late 1950`s when my family were still together and I had a happy home life.  It was a time of great anticipation and hope for the future.  I never believed in Santa because I was afraid of a strange man coming in the house so Dad told me the truth when I was very little, thankfully it never did me any harm though I did ruin the dreams of some of my little friends who believed in him implicitly...wasn`t I horrible...lol!  But I digress....Christmas for me DID mean the birth of Jesus even though we weren`t particularly religious.  I would float around the house on Christmas morning singing my favourite carols and on one occasion wearing the roller skates that Mum and Dad had bought me.  Nothing seemed to upset me and even though I was an only child until I was eight I always kept myself amused.  I never even questioned why my parents bought me a games compendium even though I had no one to play them with, I just played against myself, at least I always won that way!  Oh yes, Chistmas was a joyful time up until my mother left home on December 12th 1963....I hated Christmas for years after that.  But when I was married and Kerry was born, all the joy came back and hasn`t left me since.  Now Roman is here it just gets better and better and I will love it always.   Tell me, what are your memories of Christmas past, just leave a comment, I`d love to know.

Hmm...tomorrow it`s back to work, I wonder whether it`ll be very busy?  Usually it`s at it`s busiest at weekends when I don`t work and from what I hear of them I`m very grateful that I don`t, I`m quite happy to plod along at a steady rate without being rushed off my feet.  It`s going to be a busy week one way or another because I have to collect a prescription tomorrow afternoon on the way home from work, Tuesday I have to go into town to buy the last remaining pressies, though I`ll bet I`ll still have to buy a few more bits and pieces.  Mind you I still haven`t bought anything for Jim, he`s a nightmare to buy for as he has no idea what he wants and anything I suggest is met with a ` don`t know`.  Any suggestions please?....anything as long as it`s not to do with fishing,he doesn`t have room for anymore..lol!

Anyway, my friends I must go, not to read journals because, for once, I`m up to date with them.  No, I want to play some Bookworm and see if I can get a decent score.  I hope you all have a lovely Sunday evening, take care and Cheerio for now. :o)

 

        

 

 

29 comments:

Anonymous said...

Sorry can't help you with ideas for hubby I have enough trouble with my own. This year off to the art shop he is needing brushes so that will be a start but don't know what else to get. Christmas trees will be very busy this week for you I would expect and decorations as garden centers usually have a great selection.  Take care and have a great week. Love Joan.

Anonymous said...

Christmas is in the air!
Have a good week. ;)
Sug

Anonymous said...

why do men have to be so hard to buy prezzies for,I struggle every year with what to buy Stephen, it doesnt help tht his b.day is on the 20th Dec, so I have double the stuggle, lol
take care Lynne x

Anonymous said...

Enjoyed reading your Xmas memories.  Having Roman around will make all the future ones happy!
Pam

Anonymous said...

(((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((HUGSTOYOU)))))))))))))))))))Thanks for stoping by to leavr a comment.You are a women,so,I can tell you,it wa Pms.lol.Only for wommens ears.lol.I liked hearing about your memories.I hope you have a nice day.That is probllay why I was cranky yesterday and stressed out.lol.

Anonymous said...

Well, how about some DVD's for Jim or a new razor.  Men are a nightmare as you so rightly say.  Glad that everything is going well with Danny, yes being away from home certainly changes them.  My memories of Christmas are the times it snowed on Christmas morning and after opening my presents at around 4 a.m. (my parents were always disappointed they did not get to see me open them) eating breakfast and then going out into the snow and building snowmen. Coming in to the wonderful smell of the cooking christmas dinner. Other than that, the times when my beloved Nan came to stay with us and made the cake and the Christmas puddings, it was wonderful.  I was devastated when I caught Dad delivering the presents and realised I had been hoodwinked all the time lol

Anonymous said...

We are happy to have two entrys in a row Sandra ,especially when you have time ,dont forget the pictures of Roman with the haircut... love Jan xx

Anonymous said...

Love the Graphics glad you came back to use them ~ Glad you didn't burn any of Danny's shirts lol ~ I don't think he would mind if you had ~ and how lovely he is offering you a help in hand I think that is great ~ Isn't it a satisfying feeling when a dinner you cooked is enjoyed so much ~ I think Danny living on his own has made him a very caring person ~ I am glad your family has brought Christmas back for you it is a joyous time of the year ~ the only thing I could think of for Jim was fishing gear lol what about a book John Wilson worte a good one on fishing ~ Ally

Anonymous said...

Love the graphics snagged a couple of them. Enjoy your son while he is there.  Make a whole lot of memories with him.

Sunny
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Anonymous said...

Times were hard back when I grew up so it there were very few Christmases that us children got very much for Christmas. My favorite times were when my children were small. I always enjoyed playing Santa to them and watching those bright eyes light up. My son was the oldest and he never set foot near the Christmas tree very early in the morning before he went into my daughters room and literally dragged her into the living room where the tree was. She would be half asleep but he always watched her get her Christmas things before he would even look at his. This went on for years. Thank you for bringing back those precious memories. Sorry, No suggestions for Jim's Christmas present. Men are hard to buy for LOL. Hugs, Helen

Anonymous said...

Funny Sandra, I was the only child AFTER I was 8 years old.  I loved Christmas then as I do now, though I feel a sadness at the loss those who have gone Home before me.  That is the only doldrum for me.  For most of my adult life I have celebrated Christmas with children.  The last three are here now for their little time left.  Then Rob and I will retire from parenting at home.  We will enjoy our children, grand children and great grands.  By the time Andrea is 18, we will be 63 and 67, ready to settle down as official  "old folks".  The celebration of the birth of our Lord is most precious to me.  I learned that story before I realized that gifts were associated with the day.  Being an "only" for so many years was great for me, too.  I didn't have to share the gifts until my nieces and nephews came into being, LOL.  I pray that you and your family have a wonderful Christmas time.  Blessings, Penny http://journals.aol.com/firestormkids04/FromHeretoThere  http://journals.aol.com/firestormkids04/TimeforaLittlePoetry

Anonymous said...

Hi there.  Checking in with you and I see Danny is there now...and wonderful that he can help ;>).
Christmas is very exciting to me as Momma always loved Christmas and made it special and fun...decorating the tree, encouraging us to shake presents but never hinting at what the gifts may be, talking about Santa, making goodies, church events, special times to be had with close friends and coworkers.  Wonderful Christmas music.  And it is still heartwarming to me at Christmas.  This year is hard b/c Dad is not here.  Dad cried every Christmas morning as we sat and opened all of our gifts.  He was raised from a poor family in the country who were good folk, just without a lot of "stuff" and he was touched at the family all being together and the outpouring of presents...remembering all those Christmases he was without.  So Christmas is certainly special to me and always will be...and...my Grandmother was born on Christmas, and we thought the year she died would be sad, but Katy (TheTeen) was born on Christmas day that year, early, and it made it all better b/c we knew that God did that for us and for my grandmother (who was watching down and smiling)...
Sonya

Anonymous said...

Hi Sandra...

lovely memories of your past christmas's...when i was little i really believed in Santa and one year, my dad had borrowed a Santa outfit from his friend and mum came in the lounge and Santa (dad) followed with his Ho!Ho!Ho! and a sack of pressents and i screamed the house down and shook with fear...lol. i also was an only child and i had some wonderful christmas's with my parents and i too had a compendium of games and no-one to play with, so i played against myself too!

Best Wishes...
Astra!

Anonymous said...

When I was young Christmas was something that brought the special tradition of putting up the tree and taking out the ornaments that had been put away and hanging them on the tree.    The wonderful smell of the tree and just sitting in the evening and looking at the bubble lights which were the favorites.    The neighborhood would be a glow with the outdoor lights and decorations.    As a paper boy I would deliver the newspaper Christmas Calenders which actually meant a tip for the paper boys.    I looked forward to the snow to play in when I was little and as I grew older it meant that I would head out and ask people if they would like their driveways and sidewalks shoveled.    I would say to them just pay me what you think it is worth.    I managed to save up money and buy something that was exciting like a pool table for our basement.    I will remember those years this Christmas Season as my family is living far from me and I will be spending it with just a friend or two.    mark



Anonymous said...

Hi Sandra ,Christmas is so much more exciting having Grandchildren to share it with.Men are hard to buy for ,does Jim like to read ,a book maybe,slippers, new belt,not so exciting but maybe a voucher so he can choose for  himself in the sales.......Love Jeanx

Anonymous said...

I didnt know that your mom left you.....mine did also. I liked reading about your childhood though. I am glad Danny is so mature and being helpful! I know that means alot to you. I have lots of people who are impossible to buy for..what a burden when really there is no time to figure it all out!
Love,lisa jo

Anonymous said...

Hey isn't it nice once they have tasted independence and are happy to help out <ggg>  My memories of christmases past...Well we were religious...We always went to the midnight service on christmas eve...Then when were a bit older we were allowed to open one present when we got home...But me and younger sis had to make sure we opened one from same person as we often got given the same thing...We always had tons of presents as my mum had 8 brothers and 1 sister and my dad had 2 brothers and 2 sisters...I always think how meagre my lots piles have looked compared to mine used to be...But they don't have as many relatives...christmas morning we'd get up really early and go through and annoy mum and dad and waken them up...Then we dragged all our pressies through and opened them whilst in their bed...A tangering for brekkie and off to church for christmas service...Then we'd all stuff ourselves silly on christmas dinner whilst me and sis moaned about missing top of the pops LOL...Queens speech then dad would fall asleep, mum and older sis and bro would be washing the dishes and me and younger sis would be playing with toys we got...Later we'd go and visit my mums parents, and 2 of my dads aunties and 2 of his uncles...Oh we had the occasional white christmas too which was just magical :o)  Caff xxxxx

Anonymous said...

Your life reminds me of Princess Diana's.  My children were adults when my husband and I separated and they both still hold some resentment towards me, especially my youngest son.  

Isn't it lovely when you can be proud of your children and rest in the reassurance that you raised them right?  I just beamed when I read about your son.  Well done, you!

I'd rather have a check-out girl that plods and gets it right, than one that hurries and messes everything up!  You just go on taking your time!

TTFN,
Susie
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Anonymous said...

Those years of living alone have taught your Danny well Sandra!!
Enjoyed hearing about your childhood Christmas memories :o)
Sara   x

Anonymous said...

It sounds like you are having fun with Danny being home.  SOetimes the transtition can be hard! Loved all your Chritsmas stories. It is hard when something bad or sad happens around a Holiday and then it is ruied for years!  Glad to hear you are enjoying it again.

Kara

Anonymous said...

21 days to Christmas-did you have to remind me! Seriously enjoy your journal its brilliant.
Andy
http://journals.aol.co.uk/andrewfrnd/life

Anonymous said...

Can i swap Danny for my 16 year old lol? All the best zoe xx
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Anonymous said...

very sweet Sandra!
hugs,natalie
(Lurkynat)

Anonymous said...

Glad it's going ok with you and Danny and you haven't ruined his shirts lol........Thank you for sharing your xmas memory with us :-)  I don't really have one, I can only remember when I found out that santa doesn't exist lol.........

Jenny

http://journals.aol.co.uk/jmoqueen/MyLife

Anonymous said...

Your a very sweet Mom...but we always knew that...Danny is lucky, as is the rest of your beautiful family...have a great day...hugs and love,
Joyce

Anonymous said...

Danny does sound really nice to have around.Its awful that your Mum left on Christmas day.I think Christmas is the one time that can be so miserable too. . .so many families have troubles at christmas.Loved reading your christmas memories

Anonymous said...

My son got like Danny when he left home, I remember visiting him at his house and he was plumping up cushions, hoovering the carpets, it was a great shock to see how this slob-at-home had changed into a houseproud young man! Christmas memories? I remember the big coal fires and a table full of Watney's ale, home made mince pies and sausage rolls, stirring the Christmas pudding and making a wish, playing board games in the afternoon, watching the late night ghost story BBC always showed on Christmas night. The candle holders with crocodile clips on the tree with real candles alight on it! Wouldn't the fire brigade be shocked if we did that now?! Now I'm on my own I don't really do Christmas, it's too commercialised for me, I can't bear the crowds in shops, waiting at check outs etc! Can't even put a tree up with my two cats around! Have a great weekend. Jeannette xx  

Anonymous said...

Only a couple of weeks...I'll NEVER make it.  LOL.  I'm usually up all night on Christmas Eve doing something and with our granddaughters here this year I want this one to be an extraordinary Christmas.
 One of my favorite memories was on Christmas Eve when I was about 9. Our family was up the street at a friend's house for a party.  Everyone we knew was there.  All the adults were playing cards and dancing and the kids trying to stay awake.  No one left (that I was aware of). We finally went home very late.  Inside our locked house was a brand new roll of carpeting with a bow around it and all of our gifts from Santa. It was that night that I JUST KNEW there is a Santa.  LOL I have tried very hard to make sure my family are filled with the Spirit of Christmas.  Christ and Santa.  :o)  Happy Holidays.
Barb  

Anonymous said...

So many memories of Christmas when we were kids.  Chucking cotton wool at the tree (for snow), snapping another Victorian silver sixpence off Grandma's bracelet for the Christmas pud, making sure your stocking (dad's sock) didn't have holes in, you didn't want your prezzies dropping out----------, Love, Angie, xx